Well folks, it’s been a year. Let me start by wishing you all a Happy New Year!!! And, by thanking you for popping by my little corner of the interwebs when you did. As with every new year, I like to begin by taking a look back to see how far I’ve come. And let me just say, last year was quite a ride…
In January 2011, I took things quite easy on the blog as I was a) doing a lot of solo parenting (the hubby was directing a show), b) had visitors in town, and c) had two Monkeyboys to plan birthdays for. I started posting “Creative Inspirations” links (see also the list at right) to share with you some of the sites “out there” that inspire me. Of course, times and tastes change, so I think we may be due to overhaul the list… but I’ll have to see how busy January 2012 looks first.
February 2011 saw the return of some more time to create, and as a result it seems, some of my most popular posts. People apparently want to know all about iCarly Penny Tees and birthday parties, and Angry Birds crocheting. But I think my favourite creation blogged about that month was the fat quarter hostess aprons, which I both gave instructions for and created for myself.
March 2011 saw me going on a trip to LA, which led to some fun suitcase personalization, and was followed by me crocheting the cutest little Poko hat for Monkeyboy Junior Jr.
In April 2011, I got busy in my garden and made only a few blog contributions – like the quilty critter cards I made as thank you cards, a few yummy recipes, and the IKEA dog revamp.
May 2011 involved even more gardening and lots of spring cleaning in preparation for the garage sale, which meant little time to create “stuff”. But there were a few nice photos as I recall… like this, of my favourite flowering plum tree.
In June 2011, I was a little lot too busy with life – the garden, the kids, the house, etc. – to blog about much. But I made up for it in July 2011 by posting about tons of stuff – like making the backyard cabana, the gorgeous summer blooms in my garden, putting up more art, my temporary rock cozy crocheting addiction, and my favourite of all, painting the Kelly Rae-inspired “Love” girlie.
August 2011 saw me participating in Susannah Conway’s August Break once again, but with a new twist – the use of online editing programs like Pixlr-o-matic. Which <ahem> I have become quite happily addicted to. =) It also saw me starting on the Dancing Mermaid-inspired Words On Bodies project, taking some gorgeous photos of some gorgeous ladies (see Day 5, Day 9, Day 17, Day 25, and Day 31). I shall have to find some more “guinea pigs” for this project once the weather warms up again.
Yup. August was a great month for my photography…
In September 2011, I finally purchased PSE9 and started playing around with it on some baby photos for a friend, but I really didn’t have much time to explore all of it’s offerings. Instead, I continued to play with the quick-and-dirty online presets I had grown to love, and began using my photos to create more mosaics for the “These Moments” Flickr group, and to pepper my new gratitude journal.
In October 2011, I continued to take lots of fun photos and play around with them in editing. But I also tried my hand at some embroidery (for the first time in years), completing the Alicia Paulson-inspired alphabet sampler and creating some “Naughty Stitches” of my own.
I also learned a bit more about PSE9 and created a wacky composite self-portrait.
Thanks to the arrival of my replacement spy-cam (woohoo!), I spent November 2011 and December 2011 mostly blogging with photos. But I’m afraid I was too preoccupied with working on tidying up the house, preparing for Christmas, and various travels and whatnots, to do much else. Except maybe make a few gifts, but I haven’t posted about them yet…
So, yeah. Even with just the highlights, 2011 has been quite a year. Not to mention all the stuff that I never got around to blogging about! Whew. Talk about ebbs and flows… As for 2012, I am looking forward to carving out even more time to get the house in shape, and to create some more fun goodies to share with y’all. Peace and joy to you! =) K





























A Time to Give
So, as I’m looking at my posts for the last few days, it occurs to me that there’s been a lot of “taking” going on around here lately. Taking care of copyright, taking my own path, taking self-portraits…take, take, take! Well, that’s hardly cool, is it? I mean, there’s got to be a little giving going on too, or things are going to get all out of whack in a big hurry. Balance, people. The secret to success for a great many things is balance. <big breath> Ahh. That’s better.
Found this on the Nayland College (Health Education) website, NZ.
It is a lesson, I am afraid, that I have had the displeasure of learning the hard way. Being a “people pleaser” by nature, I far too often have said “yeah, sure” to things and people that did very little to give back. Which, of course, has led to periods of utter exhaustion, black-holed emptiness, and even complete burn out. Baaad Kate! Now, I’m not talking the little things – a small favour here, a little gift there, that sort of thing. I adore these little things, and the mere act of doing them and receiving a heart-felt “thank you” is often reward enough. I’m talking long-term relationships or job commitments or lifestyle choices – things that have the potential to wear you out over a period of months, or even years. If it doesn’t nurture you somehow in return, then you’re going to be left with a mighty empty cookie jar, and a hollow leg to fill.
For the longest time I operated under the misconception that reciprocity had to be equal in all ways, shapes, forms. “If they put one of our guys in the hospital, we put one of theirs in the hospital“. Tat for tat (teehee). Yeah, it just doesn’t work that way. It wasn’t until I shacked up with my now husband that I learned the true nature of sharing, and that in a healthy relationship reciprocity is usually unsymmetrical, but balanced. The most obvious way I learned this lesson was with money. Even though I grew up believing that every person should “pay their own way”, neither of us has ever made the same wages, so it was impossible to contribute equally to rent and food and date nights and so forth. We had to compromise and find a solution that would make us both happy. So we did.
The beautiful coins of Australia, taken on our 2008 trip.
Nowadays, we contribute completely differently to our family life. Based on our strengths and resources and likes etc., we contribute different things, but to similar degrees so that neither of us feels like we’re being unfairly taken advantage of. There are also many “thank yous” in our day to day living, so that we both feel appreciated, valued, and that we’re not doing things in vain. The minor blowouts we experience are usually when things get out of balance, so we work hard to quickly find equilibrium again. It’s a good model to apply to other situations, I think. Maintaining the cyclic ebb-and-flow in a situation – remembering that the waves will come in varying shapes and sizes, but that the ocean must remain the same – plus tossing in healthy dose gratitude from all sides and you’re good to go.
With that in mind, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for visiting my blog. On the one hand, I am rewarded daily for my creative efforts by simply having something NEW that I’ve created. It’s also given me a non-stay-at-home-mommy outlet for my creative “urges” and given me a chance to reconnect with “other” self. Woo-hoo! But, your feedback has been MUCH appreciated. Your input and comments and questions are icing on an otherwise delicious cake – mmm, cake!
So. I’m proposing to give a little extra back today. In appreciation of YOUR efforts, I would like to reward 5 of you with a small gift of KateWares. If you leave me a message in the comment section – tell me what you think of the blog, what you’d like to see in future posts, what you had for breakfast this morning even – I will randomly select 5 of you and send you each a little something in the mail. (Or, I’ll bring you something when I meet you for tea one day, as most of you at this point are my nearest and dearest.
) If you are chosen and I don’t already have a way to contact you, I will e-mail you, m’kay? Alrighty then – comment away!
But first…
A little something…
I had to move…
A little lower…
So you wouldn’t get…
All distracted.
A few more self-portraits, but of a completely different side of me.
It’s all about the balance, isn’t it?
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