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Sunday, January 1st, 2012

Looking Back At 2011

Well folks, it’s been a year. Let me start by wishing you all a Happy New Year!!! And, by thanking you for popping by my little corner of the interwebs when you did. As with every new year, I like to begin by taking a look back to see how far I’ve come. And let me just say, last year was quite a ride…

In January 2011, I took things quite easy on the blog as I was a) doing a lot of solo parenting (the hubby was directing a show), b) had visitors in town, and c) had two Monkeyboys to plan birthdays for. I started posting “Creative Inspirations” links (see also the list at right) to share with you some of the sites “out there” that inspire me. Of course, times and tastes change, so I think we may be due to overhaul the list… but I’ll have to see how busy January 2012 looks first. ;)

February 2011 saw the return of some more time to create, and as a result it seems, some of my most popular posts. People apparently want to know all about iCarly Penny Tees and birthday parties, and Angry Birds crocheting. But I think my favourite creation blogged about that month was the fat quarter hostess aprons, which I both gave instructions for and created for myself.

March 2011 saw me going on a trip to LA, which led to some fun suitcase personalization, and was followed by me crocheting the cutest little Poko hat for Monkeyboy Junior Jr.

In April 2011, I got busy in my garden and made only a few blog contributions – like the quilty critter cards I made as thank you cards, a few yummy recipes, and the IKEA dog revamp.

May 2011 involved even more gardening and lots of spring cleaning in preparation for the garage sale, which meant little time to create “stuff”. But there were a few nice photos as I recall… like this, of my favourite flowering plum tree.

In June 2011, I was a little lot too busy with life – the garden, the kids, the house, etc. – to blog about much. But I made up for it in July 2011 by posting about tons of stuff – like making the backyard cabana, the gorgeous summer blooms in my garden, putting up more art, my temporary rock cozy crocheting addiction, and my favourite of all, painting the Kelly Rae-inspired  “Love” girlie.

August 2011 saw me participating in Susannah Conway’s August Break once again, but with a new twist – the use of online editing programs like Pixlr-o-matic. Which <ahem> I have become quite happily addicted to. =) It also saw me starting on the Dancing Mermaid-inspired Words On Bodies project, taking some gorgeous photos of some gorgeous ladies (see Day 5, Day 9, Day 17, Day 25, and Day 31). I shall have to find some more “guinea pigs” for this project once the weather warms up again. ;) Yup. August was a great month for my photography…

In September 2011, I finally purchased PSE9 and started playing around with it on some baby photos for a friend, but I really didn’t have much time to explore all of it’s offerings. Instead, I continued to play with the quick-and-dirty online presets I had grown to love, and began using my photos to create more mosaics for the “These Moments” Flickr group, and to pepper my new gratitude journal.

In October 2011, I continued to take lots of fun photos and play around with them in editing. But I also tried my hand at some embroidery (for the first time in years), completing the Alicia Paulson-inspired alphabet sampler and creating some “Naughty Stitches” of my own.

I also learned a bit more about PSE9 and created a wacky composite self-portrait.

Thanks to the arrival of my replacement spy-cam (woohoo!), I spent November 2011 and December 2011 mostly blogging with photos. But I’m afraid I was too preoccupied with working on tidying up the house, preparing for Christmas, and various travels and whatnots, to do much else. Except maybe make a few gifts, but I haven’t posted about them yet…

So, yeah. Even with just the highlights, 2011 has been quite a year. Not to mention all the stuff that I never got around to blogging about! Whew. Talk about ebbs and flows… As for 2012, I am looking forward to carving out even more time to get the house in shape, and to create some more fun goodies to share with y’all. Peace and joy to you! =) K

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Tuesday, November 8th, 2011

Odds ‘n’ Ends

Just a few that didn’t really “fit” anywhere else, but that I did for my gratitude journal and really like. =)

Monkeyboy Jr. gets a much-needed haircut at a real barber.

Part of an old bike we found in a junk heap at Pine Lake.

The city’s “pumpkin recycle” pile.

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Monday, October 10th, 2011

Canadian Thanksgiving

Practicing.

For so much. =)

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Wednesday, August 31st, 2011

August Break 2011 – Day 31

Well, I did it. I made it through another August of participating in Susannah Conway’s August Break. Instead of just posting a photo a day, I decided to challenge myself by trying some new post-production techniques using online technology. Sometimes I wrote words, sometimes I did not. But I posted pretty much every day – except when we were on our mini-vacation… but then there was that bonus post I did about Rollip, so it all balances out I guess. I will do a proper “review” tomorrow, but as a thank you to all of you who have visited here or who have commented on Flickr this month, I thought I’d leave you with one last painted words on bodies effort. Or maybe two. ;) It’s also a little reminder for myself of what I want to focus on more in the fall.

Colours desaturated in Picnik, ortonish effect applied. Framed with “smoke” in Pixlromatic, then general transparency applied.

And because I can’t do much of anything these days without being interrupted… and instead of getting frustrated like I tend to do, choosing to appreciate the attention… here is this.

Edited in Pixlromatic using the sara and round effects.

Thanks again for all of your kind words!!! I sincerely hope you have a great fall and that I’ll be seeing you around… somewhere. =)

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Monday, February 14th, 2011

Valentine’s Day

We have all, I am sure, endured both sides of Valentine’s Day. I for one have enjoyed both the sappy side (the flowers-and-chocolates, the hand-crafted sonnets, the romantic dinners out…or in ;) ) and the sinister side (the crass commercialism, the bah-humbugging, the why-am-I-so-alone??? heartache). Let’s face it – mid-February in the northern hemisphere is bleak at best. It’s cold and dark and still so very far away from the sweet days of summer. It kind of makes sense that we vehemently celebrate/criticize this random day – if only to make at least this one day just a little more exciting than the rest – doesn’t it?

Now, I’m not one to typically go along mindlessly with anything. In fact, I was nicknamed “Gumby” at my last job because I continually worked well beyond the confines of my job description. The same holds true for many of my current roles and relationships – I endeavor to conscientiously define myself and act based on my current situation rather than on societal dictates. The “rules” and “status quo” are for schmucks in my opinion (within reason, of course). So why should Valentine’s Day bee any different? Hahaha. <ahem>

Yes, every day should be an opportunity to express your love / appreciation / gratitude. But how often do we get so caught up in the mundane that we just don’t? Or we put it off until later? Or we simply forget? I like to think of this day as a reminder to express those things that you might otherwise not. Plus, let’s face it – not every guy out there is Mr. Romance. Some of them need this reminder – as artificial as it may be. And likely a few of the ladies as well.

But Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be only for school children to swap penny-cards or for lovers to try and express their hearts. Valentine’s Day is an opportunity for everyone to celebrate love in all it’s forms. Why not spread a little gratitude around today? Actually look that extra-helpful cashier in the eye with a genuine “thank you”… fire off a “thinking of you” e-mail to that old college roommate you haven’t seen in a while, but that changed your life… call your mom and tell her you love her, if you’re lucky enough to have one that you adore… You never know what tomorrow may bring, so make the effort now to share your appreciation while you can.

Of course, if the situation warrants, feel free to curse the day instead. I remember one February years ago when I got together with a bunch of my girlfriends to let go of some collective negativity. We were at our annual “Nasty Rascal” party, that particular year’s theme being “Heal That Nasty Rascal” (I shall have to dedicate a post to these parties one day as explaining them may take some time… suffice to say they were ladies only parties that revolved around our relationships with, well… penises and the men that sported them, I suppose). Anywho…

At that particular party, after we’d shared some wine and tales of heartbreak, we did something about it. I had picked up a bunch of little inexpensive plates at a thrift store on which we all wrote our grievances – past hurts, sorrows, and anger that we’d been carrying around with us for too long. We then went downstairs to a dumpster in the alley and ceremoniously hurled these troubles in the big, blue bin. They shattered with an incredibly satisfying sound.

Next, we all got a handful of multi-coloured cardboard penises that my friend and I had cut out ahead of time. On these we wrote the names of those people in our lives – both male and female – who had been (if you’ll pardon the language here) “dicks” to us. For me this included authority figures who had inappropriately hit on me… friends and family members who had behaved badly… former boyfriends that I had reason to regret ever having dated… you get the idea. We then collectively posted dozens these “dicks” under a bridge near my place. The sight of it (and the thought of other people finding them) was very pleasing indeed.

Finally, we had a little bonfire to burn unwanted relics of the past, if we had them – photos, letters, etc. It was one last chance to release their hold on us. And then somberly, we returned to the party… and lightened the mood with a little play doh sculpting of yes, penises. It was a night to remember to say the very least. The point IS, whether you revel in the warm fuzzy feelings or do something to help you get rid of the dark niggley ones, why not take this opportunity to turn Valentine’s Day into something more meaningful for you? Just a thought.

On that note, I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you for visiting my little corner of the blogosphere. You guys rock! May today and every day be filled with love. =)

Valentines courtesy of Monkeyboy Jr. and his Grade 1 “Val-Pals”.

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Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

The August Break – A Review

I cannot believe an entire month has passed with me participating in Susannah Conway’s “The August Break” project! It’s one of those “it flew by so quickly” … and yet “I remember each and every day SO well” kind of contradiction thingies. To commemorate the experience, I thought I would wrap the month up with a bit of a summary. Woohoo!

Blues

The Good – SO many good things about this project!!! Primarily, it “encouraged” me to be disciplined about trying to take good quality photos on a daily basis, and yet gave me the freedom to just “fire one off” if I was having a bad/busy day. A month was just the right amount of time to commit to a “theme” too – long enough to make me have to “stretch”, but short enough that I didn’t get too frustrated or bored with it. And just look at the great stuff I created!!!

I’ve got to admit, it was a huge relief to not have to spend hours mulling over my blog posts – my brain definitely enjoyed the the end of summer more this way! Plus, a lot of exposure to other cool blogs over the month means I now have a better idea of what I want my own blog to be like. Yippie! I just have to figure out how to pick and choose between which ones I want to keep up with, as I now have dozens in my list that caught my eye this month.

I also “met” a lot of amazing people who were also involved with the project. We connected because we were commenting on each others photos every day, which was awesome! Ultimately this led to my “discovery” of what I really like in photos. Not that I didn’t know this before, but now I’m even more consciously aware of it when I’m composing an image. I also now have a list of techniques and tricks I’d like to try when I get the chance, thanks to the inspirational efforts of my peers. And as “enlightened” as I would like to be, the ego-stroking (via comments and homage photos) was a definite plus too. ;)

Floral

The Bad – Now, to be fair, it wasn’t all “sunshine and roses” (though there were several photos of these as well). The biggest downside by far was the time commitment – I still ended up spending waaay too much time computer-bound! First, there was the sorting through all the photos I had taken (on average, about 100 per day!), then the editing, then the blog posting, then the linking to FB, then the posting to Flickr…and THEN, the going through all of the other posted group photos…and commenting! As a result, I felt I didn’t have time to do other creative things when the mood struck – like painting or sewing…and I actually missed doing them, but felt I had committed to a month of photos, so… I don’t know how I’m going to wean myself from this routine, but I’m going to HAVE to if I want to get anything else done!

I also found it really challenging to do this project while minding the baby (who is at that “needs near constant supervision” phase). If I restricted myself to nap-time photo taking, the light was harsh and hard to work with, or alternately the weather was crappy. If I tried to work around nap-time, I was limited to quick “point-and-shoot” images taken on the fly so I could keep one eye on the wee trouble maker. And trying to take photos anywhere beyond our baby-proofed house? Well, you can imagine the chaos that ensued. Plus, I knew it would be lame to shoot a whole month of family photos, so after about a week, the confines of my house and yard were feeling a bit claustrophobic. Yes, it’s been a challenging month, to say the least, and I am really looking forward to more time-flexible projects.

People

The Ugly – There really is no nice way to say this, and I don’t want to come across as mean or anything, but… one has to admit there were a lot of bad photos taken this month – many of my own included. The reason I can now clearly define my own tastes better is because I looked at hundreds of photos that made me ask “Why?” Yes, I know this wasn’t a photo competition, and yes, I understand that there were a lot of novice photographers involved…but still – even the mundane can be beautiful, people! Of course, the flipside of this is that I now try to find the “So what?” (something my favourite photography teacher was fond of asking) in my own work. Universal appeal. Timelessness. Meaning. Of course, there were many amazingly wonderful photos as well, so it was totally worth the wading through.

At one point I came across a photographer who firmly believed that taking an image directly from a camera was a “photograph”, but the minute you altered it in ANY way, it became a “digital artwork”. Hmm. This started me thinking about all of the techniques and processing being used nowadays with digital photography – a lot of it without purpose, in my opinion. I also came to believe that even the choice of camera/film used is actually akin to a treatment that you apply to an image – it absolutely needs to support or enhance that image somehow. And so, even though I enjoy a lot of Susannah’s Polaroid images, I saw enough less-than-inspiring Polaroids this summer to prevent me from pulling my own out and giving it a spin. At least not for public consumption.

Various

The Verdict – So. Am I glad I participated? Heck, yeah! As I said, I learned a great deal this month and am totally inspired to “step up” my photographic efforts when the opportunity arises. Was it what I expected? Nope, not at all. There were way more participants and a lot more interaction than I had anticipated, so it wasn’t terribly relaxing – but that’s totally my doing. Will I continue with the group into September (“August Break Continued”, as has been suggested)? Um, no, I don’t think so. Next month will already be stupid busy with school and travel and solo parenting and getting back to some of my other creative loves (I hope)…so I’m going to have to say goodbye for now.

Bottom line – would I recommend it or do again? YES-YES-a-million-times-YES! And I will do it again next summer, for sure! Not that I’m going to totally abandon the group and the connections I’ve made until then, but I definitely won’t be checking in or posting daily. And who knows, maybe by next summer I’ll be ready to take it one step further (like some of this years participants did) and dedicate my photos to a month of “Strangers” or “Diptychs” or “Post Production Techniques” or some other funky theme.

Finally, I would like to say a HUGE thank you again to each and every one of you that took the time to comment on my work, whether here or on Flickr! I really and truly appreciate it, and am very excited to see where we all end up going to from this! Happy snapping, peeps! :)

Gratitude

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Thursday, July 15th, 2010

A Time to Give

So, as I’m looking at my posts for the last few days, it occurs to me that there’s been a lot of “taking” going on around here lately. Taking care of copyright, taking my own path, taking self-portraits…take, take, take! Well, that’s hardly cool, is it? I mean, there’s got to be a little giving going on too, or things are going to get all out of whack in a big hurry. Balance, people. The secret to success for a great many things is balance. <big breath> Ahh. That’s better.

Balance

Found this on the Nayland College (Health Education) website, NZ.

It is a lesson, I am afraid, that I have had the displeasure of learning the hard way. Being a “people pleaser” by nature, I far too often have said “yeah, sure” to things and people that did very little to give back. Which, of course, has led to periods of utter exhaustion, black-holed emptiness, and even complete burn out. Baaad Kate! Now, I’m not talking the little things – a small favour here, a little gift there, that sort of thing. I adore these little things, and the mere act of doing them and receiving a heart-felt “thank you” is often reward enough. I’m talking long-term relationships or job commitments or lifestyle choices – things that have the potential to wear you out over a period of months, or even years. If it doesn’t nurture you somehow in return, then you’re going to be left with a mighty empty cookie jar, and a hollow leg to fill.

For the longest time I operated under the misconception that reciprocity had to be equal in all ways, shapes, forms. “If they put one of our guys in the hospital, we put one of theirs in the hospital“. Tat for tat (teehee). Yeah, it just doesn’t work that way. It wasn’t until I shacked up with my now husband that I learned the true nature of sharing, and that in a healthy relationship reciprocity is usually unsymmetrical, but balanced. The most obvious way I learned this lesson was with money. Even though I grew up believing that every person should “pay their own way”, neither of us has ever made the same wages, so it was impossible to contribute equally to rent and food and date nights and so forth. We had to compromise and find a solution that would make us both happy. So we did.

Australian Coins

The beautiful coins of Australia, taken on our 2008 trip.

Nowadays, we contribute completely differently to our family life. Based on our strengths and resources and likes etc., we contribute different things, but to similar degrees so that neither of us feels like we’re being unfairly taken advantage of. There are also many “thank yous” in our day to day living, so that we both feel appreciated, valued, and that we’re not doing things in vain. The minor blowouts we experience are usually when things get out of balance, so we work hard to quickly find equilibrium again. It’s a good model to apply to other situations, I think. Maintaining the cyclic ebb-and-flow in a situation – remembering that the waves will come in varying shapes and sizes, but that the ocean must remain the same – plus tossing in healthy dose gratitude from all sides and you’re good to go.

With that in mind, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for visiting my blog. On the one hand, I am rewarded daily for my creative efforts by simply having something NEW that I’ve created. It’s also given me a non-stay-at-home-mommy outlet for my creative “urges” and given me a chance to reconnect with “other” self. Woo-hoo! But, your feedback has been MUCH appreciated. Your input and comments and questions are icing on an otherwise delicious cake – mmm, cake!

So. I’m proposing to give a little extra back today. In appreciation of YOUR efforts, I would like to reward 5 of you with a small gift of KateWares. If you leave me a message in the comment section – tell me what you think of the blog, what you’d like to see in future posts, what you had for breakfast this morning even – I will randomly select 5 of you and send you each a little something in the mail. (Or, I’ll bring you something when I meet you for tea one day, as most of you at this point are my nearest and dearest. ;) ) If you are chosen and I don’t already have a way to contact you, I will e-mail you, m’kay? Alrighty then – comment away!

But first…

A little something…

I had to move…

A little lower…

So you wouldn’t get…

All distracted. ;)

The "Other" Kate Self-Portraits

A few more self-portraits, but of a completely different side of me.

The "Other" Kate Self-Portrait

It’s all about the balance, isn’t it?

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